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Economic mobility has fallen from a near-certainty to a coin flip, and half the country says the American Dream is out of reach. Is the path to prosperity still open?
Ratatouille is one of my favorite Pixar films. Never mind the masterpiece of a plot, I want to focus on the film's ultimate thesis: "anyone can cook," a line the culinary world treated as a punchline.
Ultimately, bitter critic Anton Ego, who originally sneered at Chef Gusteau for this proclamation, concludes that he finally understands what Gusteau meant: not everyone can become a great artist, but a great artist can come from anywhere. [scene] In the same fashion, people have spent nearly a century misinterpreting "the American Dream" motto. When historian James Truslow Adams coined the phrase in 1931, he described "that dream of a land in which life should be better and richer and fuller for every man..." People who quote Adams often stop there, and by that impossible standard, the promise of the American Dream fails spectacularly across every generation. But Adams's sentence kept going: "…with opportunity for each according to his ability or achievement," open to all "regardless of the fortuitous circumstances of birth or position." The American Dream is not a structural warranty that every citizen ends up wealthy. Its promise is far narrower in nature: that eligibility is not limited before you apply. Today, many people view the American Dream as completely out of reach, and for some of them it will be. But that was always the deal. It is for anyone, not everyone. This leaves us with two critical questions: Is the American Dream still reachable for anyone? Or are the structural barriers for some too massive to overcome? To find out, we have to look at the data.
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In May, CNBC and SurveyMonkey asked 4,130 American adults about the American Dream.¹ Within the data lies a gender gap that I feel deserves more attention than it has received.
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